Parenting Tips

House rules for parenting

1. Be Present, Not Just Physically

Give your full attention during interactions — put away devices, make eye contact, and listen actively.

• Quality time matters more than quantity, but consistency is key.

2. Set Clear Boundaries and Be Consistent

• Children thrive with structure. Set clear rules and stick to them.

• Be consistent with discipline, but make sure it’s fair and age-appropriate.

3. Foster Open Communication

• Encourage your child to express their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment.

• Ask open-ended questions and really listen — don’t just jump to solve problems.

4. Model the Behaviour You Want to See

• Kids learn by observing. Show kindness, honesty, respect, and emotional regulation.

• Handle mistakes calmly — both yours and theirs — to teach resilience.

5. Encourage Independence and Responsibility

• Give them age-appropriate responsibilities to build confidence and life skills.

• Let them make choices and learn from consequences when it’s safe to do so.

6. Praise Effort, Not Just Outcomes

• Focus on the process: hard work, perseverance, and growth.

• Avoid over-praising to keep compliments meaningful and genuine.

7. Take Care of Yourself

• Your well-being affects your parenting. Get rest, seek support, and manage stress.

• It’s okay to take breaks — being a parent doesn’t mean being perfect 24/7.

8. Stay Curious and Keep Learning

• Parenting is a skill that evolves with your child’s development.

• Read, attend workshops, or connect with other parents for support and ideas